At last night's Wednesday meditation, I focused us with these thoughts. There is a give and take to gratitude. We are stronger when we remember we are CONNECTED BY OUR HEART…AND OUR ROOTS. Like the Redwoods…OUR TRUTHS are dirtier & deeper. Those trees, since the Jurassic era, have gotten so strong and sure - seeming to go it alone. But they are connected to their others by the roots. They share resources, silently and secretly - all the time- even If they seem to be alone in that valley. THEY are not alone but connected in MYSTERY and MIRACLE. I also spoke about the DYNAMIC BALANCE of nature... and us.....(Click the Read more below)
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I felt like a superhero last week - (chaplain with cape...) As a hospice chaplain for the last 6 years, I have never performed a wedding for a patient. But last week the stars aligned and TWO sets of patients wanted a ceremony –both after forty years of being together. As a clinical chaplain, I have strict guidelines. I didn't want to do harm. It can be complicated at the end of life... Alot of things can be going on below the surface. So I started researching logistics, the local law, and my company's policy and procedures. I got the green light from my Administrator and Director of Nursing. I found a way to support these patients as fit their situation and spiritual traditions: one couple was Baptist the story is below ( the other is Catholic and another future story TBD). The stuff of forty years of loving Last Sunday, I performed a traditional Baptist Wedding ceremony in front of 15 people, in a living room already crammed full, with a hospital bed and the stuff of forty years of living and loving. There was alot of love in that room; it was glorious. It got me thinking about love. The ceremony was the cherry on top of forty years of loving (or maybe the whipped cream...) I made a ceremony that acknowledged the way love happens...and the way life happens. (Click the Read more below)...for a bit of the ceremony... A lovely self-care ritual that made a memorable impact How many times as a healthcare professionals have we given lip service or shallow attention to the idea that we must take care of ourselves? A lot...and then there are so many life and death scenarios and issues, it is easy to put any of it off for the needs of others. But this is not sustainable. We need to be evergreen to be useful. (This goes for family members caregiving for sick loved ones too.) The Ritual of the Chalice and the Saucer IMAGINE that pottery chalice being filled... The pitcher starts pouring...into the chalice and... They are talking about self care ... it must be one of those metaphors where we are are putting a happy face sticker on your dash board to hide an empty gas tank...? But no...they keep pouring.... The chalice is half full... (we pause to see if the ritual will be one of those half empty or half full metaphors... but no they keep right on pouring....) The chalice is 3/4 full... and they pause... (It is probably one of the metaphors about staying full to do what is yours to do... it's a good one. I believe it on most days.) But no... the pitcher is pouring past full...it's spilling over into the saucer... ( ok... ok...they are talking about ministering from the overflow...we bless from the overflow because ... hey... the Kingdom of God is within... Source is unlimited. The Lord our God is One. God is great.) Then, surprisingly, they dip their fingers in the saucer ... ( then start throwing this holy water on everyone in attendance) Got it. We bless from the Overflow. It becomes, we become sustainable. Amen. Note: this is a creative reuse - with verbal permission from Rev. Dr. Rev. Nancy Wiens in the lecture she did on Contempletive Self-Care in the Chaplaincy Institute's death and dying series this year. |
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